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It\u2019s the only way to find solutions to our problems<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n It takes learning about awareness on an intellectual level, first.<\/span><\/p>\n But the real shift happens when we consciously make the choice each time to move our awareness inward (into curiosity), instead of outward (into projections); that\u2019s when our entire world changes.<\/span><\/p>\n We begin to welcome problems that we thought we would never be able to solve with fluidity and ease.<\/span><\/p>\n This is my humble experience.<\/span><\/p>\n A child who I once thought I was incapable of mothering, and a role I once thought I was unable to fulfil, became the mission of my life:\u00a0 to help families confidently and courageously invite conscious choice and curiosity into their lives so that they can co-create and co-exist in the freedom-filled realities they each desire.<\/span><\/p>\n Having this awareness to look inward defines how we think and act in every moment.\u00a0 It defines what the next moment looks like, and the next five moments after that.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019re reading this, it\u2019s likely you\u2019ve resonated with the previous posts where I\u2019m talking about gaining a new awareness.<\/span><\/p>\n If you\u2019re tired of taming the meltdowns for one hour at a time and you\u2019re looking to make long lasting shifts with your children\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n If you understand why you need to shift into a new awareness in order to transform your emotional reactions to your children\u2019s behavior into connected solutions\u2026<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019re in the right place!<\/span><\/p>\n We can no longer dwell on the outward projections.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/span>But it\u2019s not really about whether you believe me right now.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/span>It\u2019s about whether you\u2019re curious enough to see what the new experience of life could feel like for you when you do begin to look inward in the midst of another emotional reaction.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You may ask yourself questions like…<\/span><\/p>\n What action did I take, that might have made him\/her feel like pushing the baby?<\/span><\/p>\n Who am I being, that he\/she doesn\u2019t feel the need to remember?<\/span><\/p>\n What might I have done that made him\/her feel the need to lie?<\/span><\/p>\n What does this mean about how I hoard my things?<\/span><\/p>\n When do I play unfair?<\/span><\/p>\n What might I be doing that he\/she is having a meltdown?<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s a steep learning curve with bumps, falls, and scars.\u00a0 You\u2019ll move two steps forward and one step back.\u00a0 In the beginning you\u2019ll find yourself in the same position repeatedly.\u00a0 You\u2019ll hit confusion and it will feel like a roadblock.\u00a0 But that one step forward will keep you engaged and wanting to keep questioning and looking.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n