{"id":3487,"date":"2020-10-23T18:18:33","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T18:18:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/?p=3487"},"modified":"2020-10-23T18:26:33","modified_gmt":"2020-10-23T18:26:33","slug":"youre-not-who-you-think-you-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/23\/youre-not-who-you-think-you-are\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Not Who You Think You Are"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; background_color=&#8221;#a397a7&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;7px|||||&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; saved_tabs=&#8221;all&#8221; collapsed=&#8221;off&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/jillna-flower-topper-01.png&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; max_width=&#8221;350px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_post_title meta=&#8221;off&#8221; featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; title_font=&#8221;Kurale|||on|||||&#8221; title_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; title_font_size=&#8221;40px&#8221;][\/et_pb_post_title][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/40.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; width=&#8221;100%&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;19px&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was thinking about a conversation that I\u2019ve been having with the moms in my<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/283162939604385\"> <b>FREE<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Facebook Group about conditioning. It led me to open up a conversation about, and remind myself about the meaning of, the widely used idea or concept of:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWho am I, really?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWho are you, in truth?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a beautiful concept taught in really any area of conscious living, conscious wellness, conscious parenting, self-transformation, self-development, wisdom, spirituality, you name it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But I have to admit that it was a long time before I actually grasped what this idea means, and why understanding it is so important.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s the thing. When I first heard this term, I thought to myself, \u201cI know who I am. I\u2019m Indian.\u00a0 A girl. I\u2019m a mother. An event designer who loves colors and flowers. I love to laugh and funny pranks. I love fashion.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pexels-eternal-happiness-3317184-scaled.jpg&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;19px&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But while all (or some) of that might still be true for me, they also can create suffering in me.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because I am an event designer doesn\u2019t mean that every part of designing events is something that I\u2019m naturally good at. In order for me to be good at them, I\u2019ve got to practice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because I\u2019m a mother doesn\u2019t mean that every part of being a mom comes naturally to me.\u00a0 In order for me to fully connect with my child, I\u2019ve got to practice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there are parts of being an event designer that do come naturally to me, that feel effortless. I do those parts really well. And there are parts of being a mother that come naturally to me, that flow through me, and I do those parts really well, too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But it doesn\u2019t make sense to say that I am just an event designer, or that I am just a mother. Who I am is an infinite amount of possibilities, and the same goes for you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are an infinite amount of possibilities. Some possibilities will come with a natural ease, and others you will need to practice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let\u2019s look at it another way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/pexels-andrea-piacquadio-3807741-scaled.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;19px&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physiologically, I know that my cells die and are reborn at every moment. So who I was physiologically 5 seconds ago is not who I am now. Yes?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The same goes for our consciousness. As our lives progress from moment to moment, we change and evolve based on our experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if that\u2019s true, then saying \u201cI\u201d and \u201cme\u201d doesn\u2019t make sense. If I were to identify completely with \u201cI\u201d identities, then I believe that who I am now is also who I was 5 seconds ago. And as we\u2019ve seen, that\u2019s simply not true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So who am I? I just am. I am my consciousness. We are our consciousnesses. We are our ability to make sense of our process &#8211; our thoughts, emotions, memories, and feelings &#8211; in every moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From a physiological perspective, we are our nervous system. 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