{"id":3376,"date":"2020-10-16T15:36:38","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T15:36:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/?p=3376"},"modified":"2020-10-30T15:57:41","modified_gmt":"2020-10-30T15:57:41","slug":"help-i-dont-know-how-to-decide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/index.php\/2020\/10\/16\/help-i-dont-know-how-to-decide\/","title":{"rendered":"Help!  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Your friends&#8217; children attend this school and you know the families well, so there is some level of comfort in being with them, and in having your children around them. Your children all seem to enjoy each other&#8217;s company as well (that&#8217;s huge, I know, for me too!). There is alignment with your core values of the school and your overall vision for the ideal learning environment for your child.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And yet, there are some disconnections (possibly with certain teachers or a few students), which feel quite disturbing (and potentially unsafe) for the emotional or physical wellbeing for you and your children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what can you do?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/> <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider the following possibilities:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Cultivate your own growth\/healing via coaching, in order to serve as the emotional vessel for the communication between yourself and those teachers.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/unnamed.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;19px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span>Healing your own triggers will allow you to get into an authentic conversation with those teachers, and to act as emotional support for challenges that arise during the conversation. This support will help center them and help them to keep the core values of the learning environment front and center. If this isn\u2019t something you\u2019re quite ready for, however consider\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\" style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<li><span> Create an opportunity for your children (and perhaps with the parents of the children that you feel more aligned with) in a different setting. Explore a home environment. Alternate days and activities on when to get the children together.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span>To gain more clarity on whether this possibility is one you want to consider, use the below graphic to ask yourself each of these questions <\/span><b>one at a time<\/b><span>:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span><\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\"><span>Would I\/(my partner\/spouse) be okay with this arrangement if we set a time period for when the children could be together?\u00a0 If so, how do I feel?\u00a0 If not, how do I feel?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\"><span>I have to __________ (problem, for example; spend some of my time inside my house to rest\/work\/get away from allergens.) The other moms don\u2019t. How does this feel for me?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\"><span>If I enjoy this arrangement, how would it feel for me to have a conversation and create an agreement with the other moms that could work for all of us? For example, if I allow my home to be used as the \u201csetting\u201d, could they provide the physical support that the children need?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/jilnajasani.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/how-do-I-feel.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;19px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Identify and then find an existing learning environment that meets your core values, your needs, and the needs of your children. For example, your core values or ideal learning environment for your children could look like:<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ul style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a love-based education center<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">within nature<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">enables children to follow their own interests<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">empowers autonomy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">teaches accountability and responsibility<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is your core need? For example:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to have time to yourself<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to have time with your baby\/spouse\/children<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">both<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How else can you network to find this setting?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use this inquiry to help you decide what is perfect for your journey right now. 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